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Break Free From Social Media If You Need To!

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I was recently asked by a bartender as I was ordering a cold pint of Creemore what I thought social media meant exactly.  The question seemed odd, actually let me rephrase, the timing was odd.  I never really did get to answer him, as quickly as the question reached my auditory canals mr. bartender was being summoned from across the bar by a patron clearly on the verge of shrivel if they didn’t throw a G & T down the hatch and fast.  Mr. bartender scurried away to grab the order.  I thought about how I would’ve answered and unfortunately my answer seems to have been dipped in thick molasses rolled in cotton sprayed with veneer.  Social media is all things confusing and life sucking for some and for others it’s a relaxing walk down a pier somewhere in Cape Cod or a quick jump into a sprinkler on a hot sticky humid day.  If you’re feeling it’s too overwhelming, time consuming and just a big boring alternative to reading gossip columns, step away from it all.  No one will hold it against you.

connect to collect, thinking beyond the social shoebox


Fall. New beginnings. Embrace the unknown. Spring you’ll be much appreciated when its time to clean my fallout. I’m adding, collecting, hoarding ingredients for my stew. Bruised victims step right up, I won’t be sending any one of you down a short plank. One without the other weakens the mix. Thin’s not in that’s for sure. It’s time to harvest those connections, new and old. If someone hands you a business card, don’t use it to pick your teeth. I can’t tell you how many wasted hours I’ve spent searching for that one card only to find it folded over nesting my once chewed wad of gum. Trust me on this one, you just never know when you’ll need to call Jim the plumber who works Sundays. Collect and contain those contacts. Make sure they’re recorded and saved in some sort of digital format. I was once a fan of the shoebox filing system but that concept was thrown out long ago when my carefully labeled system a la Adidas boxes accidentally found themselves surfing down the garbage shoot to hell. It’s one thing to finally get the gumption to make that first step, grab that card, shake that hand and make that connection, now keep it. And not in boxes and tissues. Keep those connections and house them in all of the digital cabins you own.